Men think about sex all the time. Everything they see is in some way reminiscent of sex. A little bare skin can get a man excited. Women on the other hand are not visual creatures. They think of sex when it is time for sex. Women are like steam engines and they take time to warm up. Men, like gasoline engines, can warm up and go full speed in 2 minutes flat.
There are many couples who have sex virtually every day. But it starts and finishes in less than 5 minutes. This is extremely unsatisfying and can be very frustrating for the women. If your partner is feeling used empty and is extremely unsatisfied you need to do something about it. This kind of sex is not gratifying for the man either. This may lead to couples avoiding each other outside the bedroom also, changing the overall dynamics of a relationship. Also there is no way a woman is going to tell you that you are a bad lover, which many, many men are.
A woman’s ability to have an orgasm is related to the quality of sex she is having. Often men have their own fears and anxieties about their performance in the bedroom. Climaxing too soon is one of the biggest worries that most men have. But a man will never talk about it. If this is happening to you, consider a position which gives less stimulation, like woman on top.
There are usually two reasons why a woman is not reaching orgasm. One being psychological and the other, you are not doing what she really needs. You have not had enough foreplay. And you finish minutes after penetration. Vaginal stimulation alone is not enough for women to climax. Make sure you have sufficient foreplay and you give her clitoral stimulation at least. Lots of attention to the breast during foreplay can be very effective and pleasurable for the woman.
Most men think of female reproductive organs as simply the vagina and clitoris at the most. Female genital however consist of the clitoris, vulva made up of the labia majora and labia minora, perineum, vagina, and of course the G-spot. Research has shown that the G-spot is a very real entity and exists in conjunction with the Skene’s glands. These glands make female ejaculation possible. Yes all women can ejaculate and even they don’t know they can. Skene’s glands are a modified version of the male prostate. The female genitalia unfortunately, do not come with a user’s guide. Women don’t like to talk about what works for them and what doesn’t. Often women do not understand their own anatomy. For instance many women don’t know that they have a G-spot. This makes the G-spot difficult for men to master.
To locate the G-spot lay the woman down on her back. Insert your middle and index finger with the palm facing up. Try to feel for ridged texture on the front wall inside the vagina. It is easier to locate the G-spot when she is nice and excited so if you cannot find it try to locate it during foreplay. The G-spot and the clitoris swell up as a woman warms up just like the penis. Once you have located it try to stimulate it during penetration by using shallow strokes.
Unlike men, women don’t play with themselves. Since they are little children, men play with their penises and know every inch of it. So they know what works for them and what doesn’t. Women on the other hand, don’t have such a love affair with their genitalia. The bottom line is that you are on your own when it comes to understanding what works for your woman. Porn is not the best place to learn about sex which unfortunately many men use to learn all the tricks they know. To start with here are three things you can do to a woman to give her the best orgasm of her life >>>>>>>>>>>